Hi,
Sorry for the late reply. I did not see your post until now.
You were sincere in what you wrote, and I could feel your passion. It is rare these days becaus
e we got used to hiding behind the mask of indifference.
I agree with many things you said. But in terms of morality, I have to disagree. To make mysel
f very clear, let's start with example.
A single man (no girlfriend or anything) met a single woman. He found her attractive, but had no
interest to marry her. If she liked him and made the first move( or 2nd move), could he go to
bed with her?
You seemed to believe that it was not right (or immoral) for him to do so.
I am saying he did not hurt anyone, he had every right to do so.
I am not here to argue with you what is right and what's wrong. We all have own morality and pri
nciples. I was trying to suggest that you may have to distinguish the difference between charact
er dificiency and human instincts.
Love is a great thing to have. It is a powerful feeling that we all wish for. I may take a diff
erent route than you. It does not mean I am in the wrong track.
Anyway, I hope our discussion can be some help. When you know someone different than you, you m
ay give him some benefits of doubt. That may lead an interesting journey.
Best wish!
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