i read your dairy and have to say i agree with you in many points you made. i am however not sur
e what marriage really means to people. I thought initially it was more a need for people to liv
e 'coz two people can probably survive better than one alone. then as our culture gets a lot mor
e sophisticated, so did marriage. sometimes i thought marriage of today feels more like a luxury
 car, with a lot of fancy features added to the basic eg a vehicle to get from point A to point 
B, mordern sound system, fancy AC, heated seat, GPS etc etc. People now complain cars not only a
bout the way they drive but the way they feel. Cars are changing, so are people. so is marriage.

is it better being simple? depends on who you ask and when you ask. for me for now, i'd say yes.
 tomorrow? i wish i know the answer i wish i can honestly stay with the same answer. yet, tomorr
ow is another day.

good luck in jiaoyou. cheers