Hi, there, 
It seems that you have registered here since long time ago. I imagine that you have tried a few 
relationships so far, but still looking for the Ms Perfect. Please don't feel offended if it's n
ot the case.  However I have to say I'm in a similar situation. 
I reckon people like us are adventurers and we take action to achieve what we desire in life. 
Sorry I'm writing here because I didn't pay membership fee yet so I can't write to you directly.
 I'm traveling now so inconvenient to do things like paying for membership.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Cheers